When is it time to Leave Poisoned people?

Poisoned People can suck the life out of one self. If you Think Low of yourself than, most likely one has these people in their life.
It’s strange how we can attract them, may feel as if they are all around. One reason is that people tend to believe you, if you criticize your self openly. NEVER criticize yourself, admit being wrong however to belittle oneself? Beleive me you can have a line of people that will do that for you! Dont do it yourself.
Secondly, subconsciously we don’t like to be around people who disagree with our views of our self. No one likes to be told they are wrong even if that person says they are beautiful. Don’t disagree with a complement take it! thank them don’t correct or they may stop praise. I need it! you need it! we all need it! Praise can direct ones life, to achieve greatness. Poisend people can be made by one’s attitude of one self, but most likely they are just that way and if you whant to succsed separation is needed. I understand family is hard to separate from. Those people deserve a chance to redeem them selfs. For mental health reasons we must set boundaries. And give fair warnings. We need family and friends to be positive people in ones life.
Correct behaviors with positive reinforcement. Harshness can’t be fought with harshness. Thank them often.
Show how you want to be treated by treating others this way. Yes it’s the golden rule people! We need to teach others our boundaries, at the Same time using tact and respect.
However, if the behavior continues drift away keep phone contact if they are family, if at all possible, but drift away. No one deserves mental abuse or physical abuse. No matter what your self image is.
Hang around people you want to be like. emulate them. how do they see themselves? how do they talk about themselves? your worth loving! and if one has to hit or degrade you, they don’t love you.
Your Inner Thoughts and Feelings Do you:
* Feel afraid of your partner much of the time? …
* Avoid certain topics out of fear of angering your partner?
* Feel that you can’t do anything right for your partner?
* Believe that you deserve to be hurt or mistreated?
* Wonder if you’re the one who’s crazy?
* Feel emotionally numb or helpless?
Your Partner’s Belittling Behavior: Does your partner?
* Humiliate or yell at you?
* Criticize you and put you down?
* Treat you so badly that you’re embarrassed for your friends and family to see?
* Ignore or put down your opinions or accomplishments?
* Blame you for his own abusive behavior?
* See you as property or a sex object rather than as a person?
Your Partner’s Violent Behaviour or Threats Does your partner:
* Have a bad and unpredictable temper?
* Hurt you or threaten to hurt or kill you?
* Threaten to take your children away or harm them?
* Threaten to commit suicide if you leave?
* Force you to have sex?
* Destroy your belongings?
Your Partner’s Controlling Behaviour Does your partner:
* Act excessively jealous and possessive?
* Control where you go or what you do?
* Keep you from seeing your friends or family?
* Limit your access to money, the phone, or the car?
* Constantly check up on you?

These are all signs of poised people. RUN! do not look back, because if you do you may get lost or worse you might bump into something” It’s ok to RUN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

Michelle McMaster

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