By Founder Michelle McMaster-Bond

Be a Survivor not a victim!

A victim is that person who has been in a position from where survival became impossible under the trap, whereas survivor is that person WHO MADE IT THROUGH THAT TOUGH TIME AND STILL STANDING HERE TALL WITH US. Most of us have come down in positions of life where we felt like something is dragging …

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@%#& it Happened! What to Do and Expect.

What is rape? And what to expect at the hospital, from your local law enforcement, and the court proceedings. I understand all you want to do is get clean! However, wait until you go through hospital procedures. Keep cloths, and any evidence the police may need. Definitions of rape: Although the legal definition of rape …

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When is it time to Leave Poisoned people?

Poisoned People can suck the life out of one self. If you Think Low of yourself than, most likely one has these people in their life. It’s strange how we can attract them, may feel as if they are all around. One reason is that people tend to believe you, if you criticize your self …

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Kicking Ass and Taking Names!

https://youtu.be/04F4xlWSFh0Taking self defense classes can instill a survivor with more power. Remember, the more one practices the defences moves, the more likely a defense move will work. Practice a move 1,000 times and then a thousand more. See what happens then. Judo Is my favorite form of martial arts. it’s all about joint manipulation, and …

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Agoraphobia break through break out!

When your own four walls become your only salvation.  the thought of going out the house creates anxiety and so much fear that the prospect of leading a normal life in the real world becomes a distant dream. I remember feeling my attacker was always close. Even if this was far from the truth. Or a …

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Mind, Body, Soul, Meditation

https://youtu.be/Tu-qZugHXfc Let your mind drift off to some soothing sounds! The world is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you deal with it.  keep strong and learn how to be vonorable again so you can always experience LOVE.  In my darkest times when I had love I was able to recover …

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You Are Courageous!

Every survivor is courageous, and every day they improve themselves they are showing strength. When a rape occurs it will rip away one’s confidence, stunt  growth and send us back to infancy. This horrific experience will take time to recover from. We have to heal on our own time line. It takes time to feel …

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Attacking your panic attacks, before your panic attacks you.

https://youtu.be/TnqZl_blT7E Your heart beats out of control or you feel like jumping out of your skin. The fear can be paralyzing. Panic attacks and anxiety can pop up at anytime throughout the day. Being triggered can be so easy. And it’s hard not to be triggered when you wound is still fresh. Do you have …

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Victory Party

[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pIOOwhmkoLo] Victory parties are a great way to lessen the blow of the day you were attacked. The day that you were attacked can stay in your mind forever, but all that matters is that you have survived another year and are getting healthier by the day! try not to put so much importance on …

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